The moment you send out invitations, it all becomes real. The right wording on your wedding invitation sets the tone for your big day. Whether you prefer classic elegance, modern simplicity, or something with a touch of humor – we've compiled over 50 templates and examples you can copy and customize.
Wedding Invitation Template Set
10 sample texts (classic, modern, playful) + formulation building blocks for RSVP, dress code & more as a printable PDF!
What Should Be on a Wedding Invitation?
Before we dive into the wording, here are the must-haves for every invitation:
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Order information by importance: Who, When, Where, How to respond. Everything else is a bonus.
Classic Invitation Wording
Hosted by Parents
This traditional format is popular for formal or religious ceremonies:
Mr. and Mrs. [Bride's Parents' Surname] Mr. and Mrs. [Groom's Parents' Surname]
request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their children
[Bride's Name] & [Groom's Name]
on [Date] at [Time] at [Venue], [Address]
Reception to follow at [Reception Venue], [Address]
RSVP by [Date]
Hosted by the Couple
The most common modern format – personal and direct:
Together with their families,
[Name] & [Name]
invite you to celebrate their marriage
[Date] at [Time] [Venue], [Address]
Dinner and dancing to follow
Please respond by [Date] to [email/phone]
Religious Wording
"Where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." – Matthew 18:20
With faith in God and joy in their hearts,
[Name] & [Name]
invite you to share in their wedding celebration
[Date] at [Time] [Church Name], [Address]
Reception following at [Venue]
Modern & Creative Wording
Casual and Personal
We're getting married!
And we want you there to celebrate with us.
[Name] & [Name] are tying the knot!
[Date] at [Time] [Venue], [Address]
Join us for dinner, drinks, and dancing!
RSVP to [email] by [Date]
With Humor
After [X] years, they finally asked. After [X] seconds, I said YES.
Now we're making it official – and you're invited!
[Name] & [Name] [Date] | [Time] | [Venue]
Dress code: Festive (and dancing shoes!)
P.S. Yes, there's an open bar.
Minimalist
[Name] & [Name]
[Date] [Time] [Venue]
Be there.
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Minimalist invitations look elegant, but make sure all essential details (especially RSVP info!) are available on an insert card or your wedding website.
Wording for Special Situations
Separate Ceremony and Reception
We're saying "I do" twice!
Civil Ceremony [Date] at [Time] [Venue], [Address] immediate family only
The Celebration [Date] at [Time] [Venue], [Address] and this is where you come in!
We can't wait to celebrate with you! [Name] & [Name]
Reception Only
The vows have been exchanged, the rings are on our fingers – now it's time to party!
[Name] & [Name] invite you to their wedding reception
[Date] at [Time] [Venue], [Address]
Join us for dinner, drinks, and dancing into the night!
Outdoor/Garden Ceremony
Under the open sky, surrounded by those we love, we'll exchange our vows.
[Name] & [Name] are getting married on [Date]
Ceremony at [Time] [Outdoor Venue]
Reception to follow at [Venue]
In case of rain, ceremony will be held at [Alternative]
Children Welcome / Adults Only
Children welcome:
P.S. Children are warmly welcome at our celebration! We've arranged a play area and childcare for our youngest guests.
Adults only:
While we love your little ones, we've planned our wedding as an adult celebration. We hope you can arrange childcare and enjoy a night out with us!
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Always phrase children policies kindly and with understanding. It's your decision, but respect makes it easier for everyone.
Communicating Dress Code
The dress code should be clear but not intimidating:
| Dress Code | Wording |
|---|---|
| Formal | "Dress code: Formal attire" |
| Black Tie | "Dress code: Black Tie (evening gown / tuxedo)" |
| Semi-Formal | "Dress code: Cocktail attire" |
| Casual Elegant | "Dress code: Smart casual – just come comfortable!" |
| Color Theme | "Dress code: We'd love to see you in pastels!" |
| No Code | "Come as you feel most comfortable." |
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A dress code helps guests choose outfits and ensures cohesive photos. Learn more in our Wedding Guest Dress Code Guide.
RSVP & Additional Information
RSVP Wording
We'd love to hear from you!
Please let us know by [Date] if you can join us.
Email: [address@email.com] Or visit our website: [URL]
Please also let us know of any dietary restrictions or allergies.
Accommodation Information
Where to Stay:
We've reserved a room block at [Hotel Name]. Book by [Date] with code "[Wedding Name]" for a special rate.
[Hotel Address] [Phone/Website]
Gift Registry (Tastefully!)
Your presence is the greatest gift. For those who wish to honor us with more, we've created a small registry on our wedding website.
Or contribute to our honeymoon fund – we're dreaming of [Destination]!
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Never make gift requests sound demanding! "We want cash" comes across as tacky. Frame it as an option, not an expectation.
Bilingual Invitations
If you have international guests, here's an example of bilingual wording:
[Name] & [Name]
request the pleasure of your company at their wedding celebration laden herzlich ein zu ihrer Hochzeit
[Date] / [Datum] [Time] / [Uhrzeit]
[Venue] [Address]
We can't wait to celebrate with you! Wir freuen uns auf euch!
RSVP by / bis [Date]: [Email]
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With a Weddy wedding website, you can easily create multilingual versions. Guests choose their preferred language!
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Conclusion
The perfect invitation wording is the one that feels like you. Whether traditional or modern, long or short – what matters is that your personality shines through and all essential information is included.
Use our templates as inspiration, customize them to your style, and remember: a wedding website is the perfect complement to printed invitations. You can share all details there and manage RSVPs digitally.
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